Bieke's Stories: A last look from my window

Bieke's Stories: A last look from my window: Now that I am no longer there, I spend my time gently prying lose the tentacles that hold my emotions engaged to the time spent in Istanbul...

A last look from my window

Now that I am no longer there, I spend my time gently prying lose the tentacles that hold my emotions engaged to the time spent in Istanbul. I had the good fortune to have a window looking out on where the Bosporus meets the Golden Horn, and where the Golden Horn runs down the Sea of Marmara, past the Sultan’s Palace, past the Hagia Sofia, and past the Blue Mosque. Names that invoke mystery, and I got to look at them on a daily basis.

In the distance, the Asian side where the harbor of Haydarpasa and Kadakoy shine in the sun. Closer by, the shores of Uskudar, in front the Kiz Kelesi Tower. All day long, ships of all sizes would come and go, birds would fly over and, a few times, dolphins sped by on their way to the next feeding grounds.

My window painted a never still picture of light playing on water beneath ever changing skies. This constant presence inspired me to try my hand at a, for me, new form of poetry.

ON THE BOSPORUS: a collection of Haiku’s

Lacy spheres pulsing

Gelatinous rings below

The Bosporus calms

Floating cities

From the mists of Marmara

Tourists up above

Ships crossing pulsing

Birds skimming for tasty treats

Small boat keeps balanced

Skies sweet rose on blue

Golden light descending

Evening painter

Stirring up water

From Marmara they have come

Rising from the mist

Ships like city blocks

You never need to leave home

The future of tourism

Curtains of rain

Dark clouds tumble on darkening waters

Seagulls with silver bellies

Filigree of rain

Stringing water to dark sky

Birds soar like angels

And then it starts

Between dark sky and restless water

Streaks of lightning

Weather worn facade 

Torn curtain black with soot

Abandoned home 

Blackened curtain whips

From broken window

Shattered glass in worn down wood

Clouds rumble in

Water churns decisively

Boats keep rushing by

They keep rolling in

Clouds keep flashing like silver

Black egret shakes head

Bieke's Stories: Getting involved

Bieke's Stories: Getting involved: A Facebook friend of a Facebook friend called and we arranged to meet at the Gezi patisserie near Taksim Square. I had taken the funi...

Getting involved

A Facebook friend of a Facebook friend called and we arranged to meet at the Gezi patisserie near Taksim Square. I had taken the funicular up to Taksim Square a few times and walked from there to the Istiklal Caddesi, the street that only shows up as a tramline on maps and is one of the most visited streets in Istanbul.

   Between it and Taksim you can find many Western franchises and the swankiest hotels in the city. The street has mainly nineteenth century and early twentieth century buildings.

There is an impressive Roman Catholic Church, a Greek church, and a number of prestigious schools and other buildings of note. Istiklal has no traffic, except for the old tram chugging back and forth.

       But today I had not come to take a stroll down this street. Today I came to meet a new friend, and to take in Taksim Square, the place of so much recent history. 

The park, which authorities wanted removed so big business could have space to expand, takes up about half square. It isn’t much of a park, as far as city parks go, but it is the only green space that this part of town has. It is a quiet space amidst one of the busiest parts of a busy city. People love to come here.

   As I walked, I contemplated how a little over a year ago, this place saw bloodshed. Not the kind of bloodshed it had seen in the past, notably the late sixties and seventies, but there is still enough nervousness on behalf of the authorities that police keep a vigilant presence at all times. Taksim is the place where demonstrations take place, and Gezi Park has become a symbol of ordinary people’s rights.

    When G and I met we only had two hours, but we talked like old friends will. The kind of talking with no beginning and no end and that goes on over a life time. We were sitting in front of a latte and a sinfully delicious portion of chocolate creation. G gave me her take on Gezi Park and the clashes with the police, words and sharing flowing as smoothly as the chocolate concoction sliding down our throats.

    In the beginning of my stay, I truly was amazed how freely people shared their views about the political situation but by now I realized that this was pretty common. Outside Turkey, when you get reports of people clashing with police you get a distorted picture of how safe this place is to those who speak their minds. Certainly, in the past you would get punished if you professed what the authorities didn’t want to hear but for now things have eased up. Not everywhere. Some buildings are still closed to the public and guarded.

     

G said her views about the current situation were not always those shared by her peers. “I just want to say, I think people forget how much progress we have made.” She leaned into me before she continued. “I clash with my father because he strongly believes in the secularization process Atatürk introduced to this country. He also served in the diplomatic services of subsequent governments. And then, here I am, his daughter, defending some of what Erdogan has implemented. The Kurds. We didn’t even have a name for them before he came to power. And that just wasn’t right. My mother is afraid I’ll show up wearing a veil one of these days.”

     But she and her parents love one another dearly and, recently, she has been able to find a way to help her father understand where she is coming from. And her mother no longer wonders if she will show up with a veil.

     Although! She tried one on. The other day.

     “I thought I would feel suffocated,” she said. Her mischievous laugh underscored her words.  “But it was actually kind of nice. I could see everything. No one could see me.”

      Playing hide and go seek. It suits her impish temperament. “Actually,” she said, “my sense of humour is simply childish. You remember when pipi and kaka jokes would make us laugh. They still do.”

      When she smiled at me, I got a glimpse of the cheeky child within. The smart provocateur who smiles at you charmingly while giving you a clear message that something needs to be said.

      Then she got serious again. “What happened here last year, and earlier,” she said, “is not a good thing. Police spraying water and gas at people for just speaking their minds. But if you compare it with what we used to have, then you have to admit there is progress. People used to get shot dead, now they get sprayed with water, or pushed back by gas. A few still get hurt, a few died last year, but it is not as it was.”

      “I see,” I say.

      She has a point. Progress in small quantities is still progress. I told her of the documentaries I saw at the Modern that show the time when freely speaking out, or being the kind of person that was not wanted, could get you into all kinds of trouble.

           

We continued our musings about freedom and progress. Is it progress when Miley Cyrus spreads her legs to the world? Is it freedom? Or is freedom and progress being able to wear a veil when you choose to? Is a girl who decides to follow old traditions any less free than a girl who pushes the limits of a world that embraces hedonism?

     Staying here, in this country, the questions come at me with urgency. Turkey is a multi-faceted and multi-cultured society that is bubbling with possibilities. When you sit with a woman who defines herself as a secular atheist, who lives on the Asian side, and who has friends who wear the veil without giving up their capacity for tolerance, then there is hope.

We met hope again on our last Sunday here: Pride Day. Our friends were going in support of a friend so we decided we couldn’t sit back. Th and I set off for Taksim Square early, and with a sense of caution. We checked in at the Taksim Square Burger King where we had agreed to meet. No rainbows yet, apart from the decorative string of colourful shopping bags high up, and that run the length or Istiklal. We retreated and found a coffee shop. There a girl in a white organdie dress entertained us playing a repetitive tune on a small accordion. We called her over just as she was shoed away by the proprietor. She told him she had a coin to collect.

    It takes guts taking to the street.

    Pretty soon, groups of young people carrying multicoloured flags started drifting by. Our cue for going to Burger King to see if our friends had arrived. On our way we saw a group of men hanging out by an official looking building. Plainclothes policemen? We thought so. At Burger King I spotted my first rainbow coloured piece of clothing, a fingerless glove on a tough looking dude. Further down, some merchants were selling whistles in all colours, and LTGBQ banners. A couple arrived on a motorbike. He was wearing a multi coloured helmet, she carried a striped flag, the colours of the rainbow. People started to move in on one another, hugging, old friends meeting.

A man in a white bridal gown walked by and the mood shifted. Something was afoot. Then our friends arrived. Behind them we saw a congregation of flags and we heard the beginnings of the chants that would come over us in waves for the next four hours. Before long, rows of police helmets, shields and gas masks filed by. Their intimidated stand accentuated by the white armoured vehicles that followed.

    “They’re just people, standing up for their rights,” I still said. And, just then, rainbow flags were thrown in our midst, like gauntlets. Some of us picked them up and looked over the row of helmets to the flags that were now jumping up and down. Before we had time to decide, police shoved us gently, but firmly, into the circle. “You go that way,” they said. And we were committed. In the midst of it. Our fate sealed to this growing crowd that came out to show the world what speaking out means.

    It soon became clear that the police only had one wish: no one was to go to near Gezi Park. It was also clear that this group of protesters was not here to tackle that problem. They had their own statement to make. Before long, the helmet clad police wearing gas masks retreated. So did the armoured cars that came with them. Only a few rows of plainclothes police were left and they eventually also took a few large steps back and then disappeared behind a wave of colour.

     No Gezi Park. We were all clear on that. But what was also clear was that the police would have used whatever means necessary to make sure we didn’t make a move on the park. You seldom see police, here in Istanbul, and when you do, you don't sense threat. Until a group decides to speak out. Then they appear in formation. Each individual a fortified unit. Each formation impenetrable like the fortresses of old, except that those fortresses used to offer protection to the subjects of the lords. Not so today. The people who come out to protest are clearly the enemy. But who needs protection from them? Gezi Park? Or the plans on the desks of the corporations that want to move in? 

        

They’re good questions but on a day like this, when so many have come out joyfully to celebrate diversity, they don’t need an answer. We walked shoulder to shoulder, several tens of thousands of us, by the occasional parked armoured cars, which soon filled up with graffiti and banners; past the couple leaning like royalty from a second floor window, kissing one another to our cheers, and showing the wedding rings they obtained; past bewildered shoppers and bemused shopkeepers.

     I, a person who never raised a flag, not counting that one time in my youth when I was coerced, gladly held aloft the rainbow flag. I gladly joined my voice with those that were chanting and shouting and showing the world that personal freedom is sacred.

     That the freedom to be who you are, cannot be touched.

Bieke's Stories: Walking with Pamuk

Bieke's Stories: Walking with Pamuk: On the last day that belonged to me—alone from early morning till late night—I set out to search for the soul of Istanbul, through the eyes...

Walking with Pamuk

On the last day that belonged to me—alone from early morning till late night—I set out to search for the soul of Istanbul, through the eyes of its artists. First stop, Orhan Pamuk’s Museum of Innocence. When new to a place, I don’t like to fill my head with other people’s impressions of what I might find there. I like to walk in wide-eyed and innocent, so all I knew was this: a museum based on a novel. A novel written by a Nobel Prize winning author who deeply thinks about what life is all about and who is clear what should be first and foremost on everyone’s agenda.

    From my apartment to the museum is at most a ten minute walk. We share a neighbourhood. Whenever I walk this neighbourhood, I wonder how Pamuk would view what I see around me.

     The museum opens at ten. By the time I got there it was still early and I was ready for tea. A tiny coffee shop two houses from the museum, in the narrow street with it’s closed-in feeling of the tall narrow houses that line it, was all I found. The museum is housed in a mainly residential neighbourhood that has a run-down look and feel to it. In one side street, I spotted walls of corrugated steel and runaway weeds. The museum is painted in what my colour illiterate eyes would call a burgundy. Everything feels small, unglamorous.

    Deserted. Almost.

I asked the young man, who brought me a glass of tea, when the museum would open. He, however, pointed to a nearby shop and said: it is closed. When I asked in a different way, pointing myself now, he left me with the impression that he didn’t know about the museum. As I sipped my tea, sitting on the low stool and staring across the street, I anxiously wondered if I would get to enter the museum. The only other people at the coffee shop looked like potential museum goers. That was promising and so was the door of the museum where I had seen the poster with its hours of operation. 

   Please, let it not be closed down.

    Then it was ten. Still nothing looked as if  anything had changed at the museum. The couple across from me hadn’t moved and the front door with the poster remained closed.

    A family walked by the museum. An outsider look to them. Cultural tourists, I told myself. They looked at the door and poster. Then they disappeared around the corner. They never came back. Then a lone woman. Oriental from appearance. Camera hanging from her shoulder.

    Same thing.

Soon the couple across from me up and disappeared in the same direction. I burnt my tongue on the tea, eager to get going. I had became hopeful again, even if the door with the posted hours was still closed and my cluttered mind had, by now, presented me with a possibility of scenarios of what might have happened to the unsuspecting people turning the corner. That street where they all disappeared had looked to me as if it was going nowhere.           

   After I paid for my tea, I gingerly walked the small distance to the burgundy house. I peeped around the corner and sure enough, at the side of the house, a window with bars. And it was open. 

     I felt as if I had stepped back into my childhood. In Belgium, back then, wickets of institutions that served the public where often intimidating with their bars as security measure. But the nice looking young man behind the wicket was sweet as can be, unlike the sour-faced bureaucrats of my childhood. When I told him—I had done that much homework ahead—I wanted to buy the book and use the ticket in the book for my entrance, a door appeared out of the burgundy wall and a security guard let me in. This man seemed oddly out of place in this museum that didn’t look like a museum because it looked like the ordinary house it still is, in many ways.

    He pointed to the basement. First thing I saw in the two paces it took me to get from the desk to the stairs was a display case as large as the wall. It was filled with cigarette stubs that had little pieces of paper stuck next to them.

    But down the stairs I went to a crowded basement full of books. I was glad to have done that part of my homework because for the price of the book, which is the same as the price of the entrance ticket, I got both.

     25 TL or $12.50. This city is generous with its displays of culture.

     The first thing I did after I had the ticket in my book stamped was to spend some time in front of the cigarette stubs caught like butterflies against cork board. Each cigarette stub a memory of Füsun, the girl so loved by the protagonist. On the second floor, a parade of small glass cases. Each small case displaying objects of a chapter of the novel that holds the life of a man obsessed by objects that are connected to the woman who dominated his every thought.

    Walking through the museum is like walking through the writer’s mind as he is writing his novel. The narrow three-storied house is the house where the protagonist of the novel spent his last days and where Pamuk supposedly sat with him as he recorded this story. As you walk by the display cases, you get an overwhelming sense of the importance of objects that create our world as different from the world of others. There a cup of petrified coffee, a decapitated doll, a purse, a satin pump, photographs, movie reels, a glass of tea never finished.

    The book is an account of an unremarkable life of a man born rich in a poor country, who fell in love with a shopgirl, a poor distant relative, and how his life from then on is shaped by this troubled love. Yet the book is so much more. It talks of an era when the bourgeois class of Istanbul embraced ennui in the second half of last century, while outside their circle people where fighting in the streets to change the country. The museum doesn’t show this explicitly, nor does the book take you there but as you embark on this adventure you get a sense of a life in a chaotic world, cushioned by privilege but forever changed. 

           

For the protagonist, building this museum in honour of his love for this woman was the only thing, in the end, that gave meaning to his life. But I didn’t know that yet as I walked through the museum because I had not read the book. What I did read though were the statements Pamuk posted that tell us that the small things in life are what should matter from now on. I don’t know if Mr Pamuk would agree that they matter because they keep people so pre-occupied that they become paralyzed but I certainly was left with that thought, and it filled me with a deep sense of compassion.

    Out on the street again, I walked by a shopkeeper and saw the loves that evaporated from his life. I also saw how the shoeshine man’s brush might be the only thing that never let him down. I saw the graffiti on the walls and understood some of the longing of the person who held the spray can. I saw an abandoned shoe on the street and a cigarette stub near it and I stopped in my tracks when I understood there was a story to be told. When I walked on, the faces of the people I passed prompted me with an overwhelming urge to write.

   I had to simply stop again, to collect myself. I contemplated Pamuk’s words when he said that instead of the epic story, we need novels; that instead of monuments, we need homes; that instead of large and expensive, we need small and cheap. That instead of large museums that glorify the acts of the powerful, we need small museums that celebrate ordinary daily life.

    Instead of nations, he says, we need persons.

   As I walked on, though, I found I could no longer look at each person that passed by me without becoming overwhelmed. It occurred to me then that maybe we build monuments to hide from ourselves. To be constantly present in each personal life as I walked up to Istiklal and down again at the Tünel, was shutting me down. There was too much to hold. So, I was glad when I reached the Galata Tower. As I rested in its robust strength, I thought of the heroes we revere and I knew then that we hide in their stories of bravado to hide from our own lives.

    In the afternoon I finally made it to the Istanbul Modern. I was still caught inside Orhan Pamuk’s vision and I was curious to test his statement against this government run institution. Would I be able to hide there in the greatness of others, or would simple lives tear me open even further?

    For starters, I was feeling rather sheepish when I finally figured out, on one of these last days of my time here, how to find the entrance. The Modern is housed in an old building at the end of a parking lot belonging to the harbour, where the huge cruise ships dock and behind the unremarkable entrance to the American Bazar that is tucked behind the Nusretuye mosque.

           

As if pulled in by the sweet smell of the water pipes at the nargile bars it backs onto, I was finally at the gallery I had wanted to visit ever since I got here. As soon as I entered I was impressed. The price was only 17 TL.

   A bargain, I thought.

   A true bargain, I knew three hours later.

   As I started to walk from one display to the next, I soon wondered if people at the Modern might have been listening to their revered novelist. Where the older paintings still talk of a time when we built it big, the newer displays, most notably the audio-visual displays, talk of the ordinary and not so ordinary lives of regular and not always such regular people. But still, they talk of the lives of the “little people,” the “man and woman in the street.”

   Take Dermet Demir. A transvestite become transgender she/he was active in the nineteen eighties, the time when the protagonist of The Museum of Innocence could only think of his love and attempted to live as if times were not changing. I gingerly entered the long room with benches on one side and four screens on the opposite wall. I had no idea how I could absorb all that came at me because each screen showed a documentary consisting of an interview with a person who had, at one time or other, worn a wig. The first one a woman who did so to hide from the police, the second a woman who had cancer. The third screen was black but had audio. The fourth screen showed Dermet Demir.

   Mesmerized, I sank down in front of this interview and listened how Dermet had been brutalized and raped over and over again by the police because, he/she lived openly. Out in the street, out about his/her orientation. And still both male and female at that time. Now she is woman and still speaks freely. Now she is part of the face Turkey shows to the world at the Istanbul Modern.

   As I was listening to Dermet, I was also listening to the woman in the blackened screen. This woman wore a wig to hide her hair so that she would be allowed to go to school. Wearing the scarf in Turkey, at that time, got you banned from many things. School one of them. While Dermet donned a wig to look like a woman after her hair was shaven off in prison, this woman donned a wig to look like a Western woman so she could get a degree. Sometimes she would even keep her scarf on underneath the wig but that proved not easy. The only time she would feel herself again was when she was home and could take off the wig and put on her veil.

    In another audio-visual display, Undressing, by Nilbar Gures I watched a silent yet dramatic display of a woman draped in veils and taking them off one by one. Each time she took off a veil, she named a woman she loves. Her mother, her grandmother, an aunt. A friend. In the end, she only had one cloth draped over her face. It was wet with perspiration. I felt profoundly moved when she pulled of the last veil. It revealed the laughing face of a beautiful young woman. As I was leaving the viewing room, two pretty young girls with headscarfs took my place. I wondered how they would experience this video. When I got home, I googled Nilbar Gures and found the video on You Tube and I watched it again.

   A third video that captured my imagination was a cartoon depicting the life of a woman from childhood to old age, through the secularization phase of Turkey. When she is a young woman her mother tells her to take off the veil and conform so that she will be successful in life. In another scene men have their pants pulled down and their clothes shredded because they are traditional garb, while their women look on and giggle behind their hands. A small moment for women that is soon deflated because their men are not only shamed by soldiers, they also don’t have the means to buy Western clothing.

   Eventually, this young woman gets married. She has a son, who is then molested by the father. 

           

As I stood there and watched this story, in its old-fashioned shadow-play style, I was impressed to see how freely the artists were able to express themselves. I became even more impressed once I made way downstairs to the photography exhibition of recent events in Turkey. Here, a group of Kurds demonstrating under fire by the police, there an Armenian woman in a tomato field, further down people living in the street. And then the men pulling the enormous white bags on wheels that are full of recycled objects they collect from the streets day and night and bring to deposit areas.

   The caption: these men work for very low wages in hazardous conditions.

   As I walked home I was profoundly moved. When I first came to this country I had expected people to be guarded in their opinions, but the more I got to know the place, the more I started to realize this wasn’t the case. The Istanbul I got to know, over the weeks, is a place where people of all walks of life might very well figure out how to live together without tearing one another apart.